How to Decide Whether Your Child “Needs” Gadgets
At first, I was shocked when I saw young kids with cell phones, but I see it more and more every day. I actually understand why parents would allow their children to have cell phones. It makes them more accessible and are handy in an emergency. I remember many a cold day searching for a pay phone so I could call my mom. A cell phone would have come in handy back then.
This article tries to address the factors that should be weighed when deciding whether a child is worthy of getting a gadget.
It talks about maturity levels and mentions that there really is no hard and set rule. They do have a word of advice if you do decide to get a gadget for a child:
“Setting such limits is important, experts say. Just as parents make rules for use of the family car, they should set limits on use of computers, and gadgets.â€
I’m always wary when the mysterious “Experts†say anything, but I think it’s sound advice. More importantly, I would have liked to see more advice on knowing when a child is ready for such a device. One indicator is whether they are willing to put their money where their mouth is.
My mom was always willing to get us the gadgets we wanted, but I think she had a test for us. She would tell me that if I wanted something, I would have to save up my allowance for it. By the time I got about fifty percent of the money, she would be willing to chip in the other fifty percent. Sometimes, on particularly big purchases, she would tell me up front that if I could save half the money, she would pay the other half. That always worked. When I was saving up those dollars to buy the Barbie Star Traveler, I had to weigh every penny to see if it was worth it. I think if parents did the same thing as my mom did, they would KNOW that their child really wanted the gadget and was worthy of it.